Girls are respnsible!!

The term 'rape' is now one of the most common words in India these days found in the newspapers everyday in one page or the other. Its so often found in writing or used by us that even children of four-five years of age know the term really well, if not the meaning. But what's the reason behind the term being so popular in the country? Maybe the rapes happening almost everyday here or there is the reason. But then, why do rapes happen at all?

Numerous reasons exist varying with the viewpoints of person to person. Some say, literacy is the reason. People, being uneducated, tend to commit the crime on the spur of a moment without considering the consequences as they lack a rational mind. While some others believe it the fault with the Indians. The Indian men love to have a supremacy over the women but with the empowerment of women, the men unable to bear it, give an outlet to their anger one day, subduing her by raping her. Rapists are many times reported to enjoy the victim crying for help and pleading.

There exists numerous other theories and explanations regarding the increasing numbers of rape in India, all of which is not possible to put in here. But I will give you another really interesting viewpoint which even has got some facts, proven by science, backing it up. It says, that girls and only girls are responsible for the rapes and not the men! Surprised? To know more, buffer the video below and play it up. 

                      

A special thanks to one of my best friends who found the video while researching on the topic and was kind enough to share it with me. Without her this post would never have existed.

One person can be the change

A school dropout guy suddenly strikes upon an idea while thinking on how to please her newly wed wife and working on that idea with full devotion not only does he please his wife but also affects the life of thousands of rural women at one go in a positive way. Seems impossible? Then read on.

Arunachalam Muruganantham is a school dropout from the southern part of India who dared to dream a change and with sheer determination also made it possible. One day while buying sanitary napkins for his wife, he realized that napkins of women costs too much, which very few can afford and are forced to use rags. So he decided to make his own simple sanitary napkins which wouldn't weigh much on the pocket but would provide the hygiene and comfort that doesn't come with the ragged clothes.

But he didn't stop here. When his product got the success and popularity with a lot of women, he was compelled to open a number of factories in order to produce more. And he just didn't let this opportunity go. He set all his factories in the undeveloped parts of India, employing all the village women, thus solving the problem of unemployment to some extent and also empowered the feminine society in the process.

Arunachalam has turned out to be a real blessing for our country. I don't know what his future plans are but I hope he launches his product in the international market, especially for the third world countries where poverty rules. His low cost napkins will surely get the success overseas as in India and at the same time will turn out to be a boon for rural women throughout the world.

Here the complete story from Arunachalam himself. You would just love to hear about his experiences and hardships with his trademark humor.

This article is written for The Idea Caravan Contest hosted by Franklin Templeton Investments.

Franklin Templeton Investments partenered with the TEDxGateway in Mumbai on December, 2012.

Why is the child in the hands of the beggars always sleeping???

"Why is sleeping child in the hands of beggars? Have you ever wondered ... "
This article I read a few months ago. Who is the author of, I don't know.
Please read…..
""Near the metro station sits a woman of uncertain age.
Women’s hair
is confused and dirty, her head bowed in grief.
The woman sits on the dirty floor and next to her lies a bag. In that bag
people throw money. On the hands of a woman, asleep, is a two year old baby. He's in a dirty hat
and dirty clothes.
“Madonna with baby” - numerous passers-by will donate money. The people of our kind- we always
feel sorry for less fortunate. We are ready to give unfortunate people the last shirt, the last penny out
of your pocket and never think another issue.
Helping, seems like. “Good job done”...
I walked past a beggar for a month. Did not give any money, as I knew that this is a gang operated
scam and money collected by the beggar will be given to whoever controls beggars in the area. Those
people own numerous luxury properties and cars.
Oh and beggar also gets something, of course “ A bottle of vodka in the evening and a döner kebab”.
A month later, walking past the beggars, as shock, it suddenly
hit me….
I'm staying at a busy crossing, stared at the baby, dressed as always- dirty track suit. I realized that
it
seemed "wrong", finding a child in a dirty underground station from morning to evening.

Native Language

India is a vast country and quite strange at the same time and the behaviour of its people often leaves me speechless. A few days back, I was gossiping with some people when one guy told a girl a english word which she didn't understand but also did not ask him the meaning but rathet asked me in private later. However the same guy, when he failed to understand a bengali word, did not hesitate a moment to ask its meaning.

What conveys silently through this incident is that we, Indians don't care or feel shy when we donot understand our native language but feel ashamed when we donot get to understand some foreign language as if its a must for all of us to know. This act has left me quite bewildered and I would love to change the thinking of my fellow countrymen but I seriously donot know how to achieve it?